Monday, May 10, 2010

Why can't India be a happy place for mothers?

Recently, I had posted a blogpost celebrating motherhood. My joy was shortlived when I read an article titled "India not a happy place for mothers" in the newspaper. The report goes on to state that India ranks 73 in the list of 77 nations rated for the "best place to be a mother". The most shocking part it says is that India is rated much lower than a host of conflict ridden African countries. Health care system is what is supposed to be the main reason as there is shortage of trained health workers in the semi-urban and rural villages.

Now isn't that shocking? Even after sixty three years of independence we have still not been able to penetrate large pockets of rural India. As Mahatma Gandhi had said India is a country of villages and progress is possible only when it happens at grassroot level. India which is known to have given the highest sanctity to motherhood is sadly lacking in giving the rightful place of honour to the mothers.

Low income levels, poverty, malnutrition, superstitious beliefs, and lack of education all put together play havoc on a womans life. When there is utter poverty at home the first person who sacrifices for the sake of her family is the mother. This in turn affects the entire family. It is so shocking to see families struggling to get even one simple meal. Many a time children are fed watery porridge and that is their meal for the whole day. The next day is an uncertainty. Imagine the mothers emotional feelings when she cannot even afford to give one proper single meal for her child. She must be dying a million deaths every second.

The government announces different schemes and releases crores of money. Who benefits from these schemes no one knows. I guess education is the only means that could bring about a wholesome change in our country in the long run. As the saying goes "you educate a woman, you educate the whole family". The sooner we realise this and work towards this end the better. There will then be no doubt about making India one of the happiest places for mothers and the joys that motherhood brings about. That day would truly be a celebration of Motherhood.

3 comments:

Ravishankar said...

Madam, edu alone wil nt suffice d needs of r country. Der r a lot mre factors affectng r country. Wht did v educated lots do?? Are we aware of what is hap arnd us. The prob lies elsewhere.

Shobhana Shenoy said...

Hi Ravishankar,
Thanks for the comment. Very true there are a number of problems together which makes it difficult.But however studies have shown that education does play a greater role in creating awareness and education here should be on various relevant aspect that has an impact in a woman's life. That should definitely make a positive impact.
As for us dwelling in urban areas I guess we have become too complacent and apathetic towards the happenings. But in certain rural pockets people are more active and vocal about the problems.

Ravishankar said...

Agrd.